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Sunday, May 31, 2015
Thursday, April 30, 2015
04/26/15 Review
Defenders
of the Family Proclamation – by Bonnie L. Oscarson, Young Women General
President
“Let
us help build the kingdom of God by standing up boldly and being defenders of
marriage, parenthood, and the home.”
Sister
Oscarson said, “When President Gordon B.
Hinckley first read ‘The Family: A Proclamation to the World’ 20 years ago this
year, we were grateful for and valued the clarity, simplicity, and truth of
this revelatory document. Little did we realize then how very desperately we
would need these basic declarations in today’s world as the criteria by which
we could judge each new wind of worldly dogma coming at us from the media, the
Internet, scholars, TV and films, and even legislators. The proclamation on the
family has become our benchmark for judging the philosophies of the world, and
I testify that the principles set forth within this statement are as true today
as they were when they were given to us by a prophet of God nearly 20 years
ago.”
Sister Oscarson made the point that
“[l]ife rarely goes exactly according to plan for anyone, and we are very aware
that not all women are experiencing what the proclamation describes. It is
still important to understand and teach the Lord’s pattern and strive for the
realization of that pattern the best we can.”
Sister Oscarson reminded us that “each
of us has a part to play in the plan, and each of us is equally valued in the
eyes of the Lord. We should remember that a loving Heavenly Father is aware of
our righteous desires and will honor His promises that nothing will be withheld
from those who faithfully keep their covenants. Heavenly Father has a mission
and plan for each of us, but He also has His own timetable. One of the hardest
challenges in this life is to have faith in the Lord’s timing. It’s a good idea
to have an alternative plan in mind, which helps us to be covenant-keeping,
charitable, and righteous women who build the kingdom of God no matter which
way our lives go. We need to teach our daughters to aim for the ideal but plan for
contingencies.”
Question to ponder: Sister Oscarson issued the challenge to all
of us as women of the Church to be defenders of “The Family: A Proclamation to
the World.” In what ways can we be
defenders of the proclamation?
Points to ponder: Sister Oscarson reminded us of three
important principles taught in the proclamation which are especially in need of
steadfast defenders.
The first is marriage between a man
and a woman. Sister Oscarson counseled
us to be defenders of marriage as the Lord has ordained it while continuing to
show love and compassion for those with differing views.
The second principle calls for our
defending voices in elevating the divine roles of mothers and fathers. Sister Oscarson asked this question: “Do we also teach our sons and daughters
there is no greater honor, no more elevated title, and no more important role
in this life than that of mother or father? I would hope that as we encourage
our children to reach for the very best in this life that we also teach them to
honor and exalt the roles that mothers and fathers play in Heavenly Father’s
plan.”
The third principle we need to stand
and defend is the sanctity of the home.
Sister Oscarson stated: “We need to take a term which is sometimes
spoken of with derision and elevate it. It is the term homemaker. All of
us—women, men, youth, and children, single or married—can work at being
homemakers. We should ‘make our homes’ places of order, refuge, holiness, and
safety. Our homes should be places where the Spirit of the Lord is felt in rich
abundance and where the scriptures and the gospel are studied, taught, and
lived. What a difference it would make in the world if all people would see
themselves as makers of righteous homes. Let us defend the home as a place which
is second only to the temple in holiness.”
Sister Oscarson ended her remarks by
saying that she is grateful to be a woman in these latter days. She further
stated, “[w]e have opportunities and possibilities which no other generation of
women has had in the world. Let us help build the kingdom of God by standing up
boldly and being defenders of marriage, parenthood, and the home. The Lord
needs us to be brave, steadfast, and immovable warriors who will defend His
plan and teach the upcoming generations His truths.”
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
4/12/15 Review
April 2015 Lesson Schedule
- Apr 5: General Conference
- Apr 12: ETB Ch 7: Joseph Smith, an Instrument in the Hands of the Lord
- Apr 19: ETB Ch 8: The Power of the Word
- Apr 26: TBA
Chapter
7: Joseph Smith, an Instrument in the Hands of the Lord
President
Ezra Taft Benson recounted an experience he had while serving as a missionary
in England in the early 1920s. He and
his companions experienced great opposition to the Church. There was a group of people in northern
England who were very faithful and devoted.
They invited him and his companion to speak in their sacrament
meeting. Elder Benson prepared a fifteen
minute talk on the apostasy. When they entered the little chapel it was
filled. As Elder Benson spoke, he
realized he had spoken for twenty-five minutes and hadn’t mentioned or even
thought of the apostasy. His remarks had
borne witness of Joseph Smith, that he was a prophet of God, and told about the
coming forth of the Book of Mormon as a new witness for Christ. At the end of the meeting, the Saints came
forward and expressed their gratitude and told him several of their neighbors
said that up until that time they could accept everything about the Church
except Joseph Smith, but afterward, they said they were ready, that they had
received the witness that Joseph Smith is a prophet of God.
President
Benson said, “Joseph Smith was a prophet of the Living God, one of the greatest
prophets that has ever lived upon the earth.
He was the instrument in God’s hand in ushering in a great gospel
dispensation, the greatest ever, and the last of all in preparation for the second
coming of the Master.”
Questions
to ponder: What was the greatest event in the history of the world? The answer
is the Resurrection of the Savior. What
is the second greatest event in the history of the world? Joseph Smith’s first vision.
President
Benson said, “The most evident truth that emerged from the Prophet’s experience
in 1820 was the reality of God’s existence and the fact that Jesus Christ was
indeed resurrected. He saw them as
separate, distinct, glorified Personages who spoke to him as one man speaks to
another.”
President
Benson reminds us that although he endured much persecution and many trials,
Joseph Smith never recanted his experiences.
Before he was martyred, Joseph Smith said, “I am going like a lamb to
the slaughter, but I am as calm as a summer’s morning. I have a conscience void of offense toward
God and toward all men. If they take my
life I shall die an innocent man, and my blood shall cry from the ground for
vengeance, and it shall be said of me, ‘He was murdered in cold blood.’”
Questions
to ponder: In what ways does Joseph
Smith not recanting help your own testimony? How did you come to know the Book
of Mormon is true?
President
Benson said, “We invite you to test the validity of our witness about the
origin of the Book of Mormon. You can do
this by reading it and asking our Heavenly Father if these things are true. I
promise you, if you are sincere, you will receive a confirmation of the
truthfulness by the Holy Ghost. Millions, with soberness and sincerity, testify
they know it is from God….If the Book of Mormon is true, then Jesus is the
Christ, Joseph Smith was His prophet, The Church of
Question
to ponder: What are some of the
blessings have come to you because of the Gospel?
Sunday, April 12, 2015
Friday, April 10, 2015
RS Meeting Reminder!
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Friday, April 3, 2015
General Conference Weekend
Just a reminder that it's General Conference this weekend. If you'd like to watch conference live, online at home you can follow the link below to the LDS.org webpage.
A few announcements:
*A quick reminder that the Walton Feed Orders are due to Marilou Woolstenhulme no later than April 15th.
Thursday, March 19, 2015
A Few Announcements
-There is not a Relief Society Meeting activity tonight (March 19th).
-I sent the 2015 Walton Feed Group information to everyone. Orders must be placed (and money given) on/before April 15, 2015. Our Ward Feed Group leader is Marilou Woolstenhulme. If you have any additional questions or concerns about the order you can contact any member of the RS Presidency or Marilou.
-March 28th is the 3rd Ward Easter Activity at 10am
-Also March 28th is the General Women's Broadcast. Dinner will be provided by the Stake at 7pm and the Broadcast will begin at 8pm.
-March 29th (the fifth Sunday) will be a combined Priesthood and Relief Society meeting spanning through the Sunday School and RS hours. We will be learning more about the family history website. Everyone is encouraged to bring an electronic device (tablets or laptops, if you have them available) to use during the lesson. We encourage everyone to have their lds.org account set up before that Sunday (to help minimize the delay during the lesson). You'll need your membership number in order to create an account. This membership number can be obtained by asking any members of the Bishopric.
-We are also encouraging everyone to update their family/individual pictures on the Ward Directory on the LDS website. (Having updated images help connect names with faces. We hope that this will help everyone become more familiar and will help in our journey to stronger ward unity.)
If you don't know how to update/change the image, here is a quick list that will hopefully help :)
1. Go to www.lds.org and log in (using your lds account user name and password).
2. Under "My Account and Ward" there is a column labeled "My Ward"
3. Click "Directory"
4. Under the column on the left hand side choose "Tallahassee 3rd Ward: Households"
5. Find your name and click on it
6. You'll see your personal information pop up. At the top there are two buttons "View" and "Edit."
7. Click "Edit"
8. Underneath the empty picture frame (or old picture) there is a "Change" button.
9. Follow the uploading steps with the new image you'd like to upload for the Ward Directory.
-I sent the 2015 Walton Feed Group information to everyone. Orders must be placed (and money given) on/before April 15, 2015. Our Ward Feed Group leader is Marilou Woolstenhulme. If you have any additional questions or concerns about the order you can contact any member of the RS Presidency or Marilou.
-March 28th is the 3rd Ward Easter Activity at 10am
-Also March 28th is the General Women's Broadcast. Dinner will be provided by the Stake at 7pm and the Broadcast will begin at 8pm.
-March 29th (the fifth Sunday) will be a combined Priesthood and Relief Society meeting spanning through the Sunday School and RS hours. We will be learning more about the family history website. Everyone is encouraged to bring an electronic device (tablets or laptops, if you have them available) to use during the lesson. We encourage everyone to have their lds.org account set up before that Sunday (to help minimize the delay during the lesson). You'll need your membership number in order to create an account. This membership number can be obtained by asking any members of the Bishopric.
-We are also encouraging everyone to update their family/individual pictures on the Ward Directory on the LDS website. (Having updated images help connect names with faces. We hope that this will help everyone become more familiar and will help in our journey to stronger ward unity.)
If you don't know how to update/change the image, here is a quick list that will hopefully help :)
1. Go to www.lds.org and log in (using your lds account user name and password).
2. Under "My Account and Ward" there is a column labeled "My Ward"
3. Click "Directory"
4. Under the column on the left hand side choose "Tallahassee 3rd Ward: Households"
5. Find your name and click on it
6. You'll see your personal information pop up. At the top there are two buttons "View" and "Edit."
7. Click "Edit"
8. Underneath the empty picture frame (or old picture) there is a "Change" button.
9. Follow the uploading steps with the new image you'd like to upload for the Ward Directory.
Lesson Review: Chapter 3
Chapter 3: Freedom of Choice, an Eternal Principle
Quote1:
“The principle of agency, he said, ‘runs like a golden thread throughout the
gospel plan of the Lord for the blessing of his children.’”
Quote2:
The central issue in that premortal council was: Shall the children of God have
untrammeled agency to choose the course they should follow, whether good or
evil, or shall they be coerced and forced to be obedient? Christ and all who
followed Him stood for the former proposition – freedom of choice; Satan stood
for the latter –coercion and force.
Quote 3:
The scriptures make clear that there was a great war in heaven, a struggle over
the principle of freedom, the right of choice.
Question: Why was agency so important? Why was it worth
fighting for? – It’s not just about getting the right answers, it’s about
learning the material. We didn’t just come here to be tested, we came here to
learn and grow and to return to our father a little more like him. PROGRESSION
Thought: Agency
is more than just choosing between right and wrong, sometimes we think about it
too narrowly in general discussions. We tend to minimize it to just right vs
wrong, but it is the ability to choose at all. To be masters of our fate, to
determine the path our life will take. What will we make of our time here?
Quote 4:
His teachings about the principle of agency included more than just a reminder
to “choose between right and wrong”. He spoke of agency as the ability to “make
important decisions that will have bearing on our salvation” and that will
“affect our happiness in eternity.
Quote 5:
The biggest business of any life is making decisions. While one of the greatest
gifts of God to man is…the right of choice, he has also given man
responsibility for these choices….We put our own lives in the direction of
success or failure. We may not only choose our ultimate goals, but we may also
determine and decide for ourselves, in many cases, the means by which we will
arrive at those goals, and by our industry or lack of it determine the speed by
which they may be reached. This takes individual effort and energy and will not
be without opposition or conflict.
Question: Do we
consider often enough what we are doing with our lives? Are we living
deliberate lives? We learn in 2 Nephi that God created things to act and things
to be acted upon. Do we find ourselves being acted upon more often than taking
control of our lives and doing the acting.
2 Nephi 2:14 And now,
my sons, I speak unto you these things for your profit and learning; for there
is a God, and he hath created all things, both the heavens and the earth, and
all things that in them are, both things to act and things to be acted upon.
Thought: Are we
utilizing our agency to the fullest? Agency is not fixed, it can grow and expand,
it can go underutilized and it can diminish. When we learn a new skill, such as
playing the piano, we open our agency to choose whether or not we answer the
call to play. If we have not learned to play then there is no choice for us to
make, we have not earned that agency.
Question: We
fought for it in the pre-existence, we know to fight for it as toddlers, have
we forgotten how precious this gift is, are we using it, are we fighting for
it?
Quote 6:
DC 58:27-28 27 Verily I say, men should be anxiously engaged in a good cause,
and do many things of their own free will, and bring to pass much
righteousness; 28 For the power is in them, wherein they are agents unto
themselves. And inasmuch as men do good they shall in nowise lose their reward.
Momentum: Good vs Bad vs Transfers
We have momentum in our lives, it is interesting to consider
some of the principles of momentum in the context of this discussion.
1.
Momentum
a.
Objects in motion, stay in motion, unless acted on by another force
b.
Function of mass and velocity
c.
Has directionality
d.
On earth there are resistances that prevent
perpetual motion, drag, friction, deplete energy. The more momentum you have
the longer you can overcome those
e.
It is easier to maintain motion, than to
initiate motion
2.
Good Momentum
a.
Mass: amassing spiritual experiences throughout
our lives
b.
Velocity: anxioiusly engaged…in a good cause,
acting instead of being acted upon
c.
Spiritual momentum can carry us through
spiritual draughts and hard times.
d.
But we must continue to put the energy in so that
we can preserve our spiritual momentum, to ensure that it doesn’t fizzle.
i.
What big spiritual
experiences have we amassed that ground our testimonies (important to remember
them, if we have them and forget, throw out the window, then they don’t help as
if we hold them close to us and retain them)?
ii.
What small recent
experiences have we had?
iii.
What habits do we
already have in place that help us stoke our spiritual flames, that help us
maintain that momentum?
iv.
What new habits or
changes could we make to?
v.
Momentum carries us through hard times, but if
left unfed it will fizzle out. We must constantly be feeding the good momentum
in our lives, whether small inputs during hard times are large inputs during
good times.
3.
Bad Momentum
a.
We have ruts, bad habits in our lives. How can
we overcome these? What energy can we apply to overcome these?
b.
What are tools that
you use to help yourself get out of these ruts (favorite talk, exercise, do
service, get together with someone)
c.
Grace in Bible Dictionary: enabling power to do
more than we can do on our own and to maintain
4.
Momentum transfers
a.
We can influence others for good or bad. We are
in this together.
Thought: We are
often told that our will is the only gift that is truly ours to give.
Thought:
Will indicates impending action. “This will happen, I will go, I will be”. The
word will is a force, a power, energy, desire, something that you are going to
do. When the word “will” is used in a sentence like that, it is evidence of our
wills. And Will power is having control over one’s impulses and actions. It is
self-control. It is having control over what we are going to do in the future.
Quote 6:
Our decisions have made us what we are. Our eternal destiny will be determined
by the decisions we WILL yet make.
AGENCY IS ALL ABOUT BEING EMPOWERED AND ENABLED. I hope that
we can remember this and take control of our lives. That we can maintain the
good momentum in our lives, break out of the bad and be an influence for good
to those around us. That we can be agents unto ourselves. That we can choose to
act instead of merely being acted upon. I hope that we can all live more
deliberate and thoughtful lives of action.
Lesson Review: Chapter 5
Chapter 5: Principles of True Repentance
Oftentimes our challenges with truly understanding repentance are rooted in improper understanding of other gospel aspects. Repentance itself seems simple enough, but do we truly understand it in all its beauty?
Quote 2: repentance means more than simply a reformation of behavior. Many men and women in the world demonstrate great willpower and self-discipline in overcoming bad habits and the weaknesses of the flesh. Yet at the same time they give no thought to the Master, sometimes even openly rejecting Him. Such changes of behavior, even if in a positive direction, do not constitute true repentance.
Quote 3: Paul wrote: “Now I rejoice, not that ye were made sorry, but that ye sorrowed to repentance: for ye were made sorry after a godly manner. …
“For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.” (2 Cor. 7:9–10.)
In both of these scriptures, godly sorrow is defined as a sorrow that leads us to repentance.
Godly sorrow is a gift of the Spirit.
Quote 4: No one is more anxious to see us change our lives than the Father and the Savior. In the book of Revelation is a powerful and profound invitation from the Savior. He says, “I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him.” (Rev. 3:20.) Note that He does not say, “I stand at the door and wait for you to knock.” He is calling, beckoning, asking that we simply open our hearts and let Him in.
One Sunday after her self-evaluation, she began to feel gloomy and pessimistic. She could see that she was making the same errors over and over again, week to week. But then she had a distinct impression that she was neglecting a big part of the Atonement—Christ’s enabling power. She was forgetting all the times the Savior helped her be who she needed to be and serve beyond her own capacity.
With this in mind, she reflected again on the previous week. She said: “A feeling of joy broke through my melancholy as I noted that He had given me many opportunities and abilities. I noted with gratitude the ability I had to recognize my child’s need when it wasn’t obvious. I noted that on a day when I felt I could not pack in one more thing to do, I was able to offer strengthening words to a friend. I had shown patience in a circumstance that usually elicited the opposite from me.”
She concluded: “As I thanked God for the Savior’s enabling power in my life, I felt so much more optimistic toward the repentance process I was working through and I looked to the next week with renewed hope.” (The sacrament, a renewal for the soul Cheryl A Esplin, Oct 2014 General Conference)
Oftentimes our challenges with truly understanding repentance are rooted in improper understanding of other gospel aspects. Repentance itself seems simple enough, but do we truly understand it in all its beauty?
Quote 2: repentance means more than simply a reformation of behavior. Many men and women in the world demonstrate great willpower and self-discipline in overcoming bad habits and the weaknesses of the flesh. Yet at the same time they give no thought to the Master, sometimes even openly rejecting Him. Such changes of behavior, even if in a positive direction, do not constitute true repentance.
Quote 3: Paul wrote: “Now I rejoice, not that ye were made sorry, but that ye sorrowed to repentance: for ye were made sorry after a godly manner. …
“For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.” (2 Cor. 7:9–10.)
In both of these scriptures, godly sorrow is defined as a sorrow that leads us to repentance.
Godly sorrow is a gift of the Spirit.
Quote 4: No one is more anxious to see us change our lives than the Father and the Savior. In the book of Revelation is a powerful and profound invitation from the Savior. He says, “I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him.” (Rev. 3:20.) Note that He does not say, “I stand at the door and wait for you to knock.” He is calling, beckoning, asking that we simply open our hearts and let Him in.
One Sunday after her self-evaluation, she began to feel gloomy and pessimistic. She could see that she was making the same errors over and over again, week to week. But then she had a distinct impression that she was neglecting a big part of the Atonement—Christ’s enabling power. She was forgetting all the times the Savior helped her be who she needed to be and serve beyond her own capacity.
With this in mind, she reflected again on the previous week. She said: “A feeling of joy broke through my melancholy as I noted that He had given me many opportunities and abilities. I noted with gratitude the ability I had to recognize my child’s need when it wasn’t obvious. I noted that on a day when I felt I could not pack in one more thing to do, I was able to offer strengthening words to a friend. I had shown patience in a circumstance that usually elicited the opposite from me.”
She concluded: “As I thanked God for the Savior’s enabling power in my life, I felt so much more optimistic toward the repentance process I was working through and I looked to the next week with renewed hope.” (The sacrament, a renewal for the soul Cheryl A Esplin, Oct 2014 General Conference)
Faith and
Repentance are the first 2 principles of the gospel, they lay the foundation
for our testimonies. Satan knows this and aggressively attacks
these. His attack of faith can often seem more obvious and overt,
as we see the faith of our society come under attack. We see the same
philosophies as seen in the Book of Mormon evidenced today in young adults
mocking the “foolish traditions” of their fathers when referring to religious
beliefs. Among other attacks on our faith.
But he works just
as hard at attempting to undermine the true beauty of repentance.
However, his attack on repentance is sometimes more covert, as the repentance
process is often done in private. Satan works hard to try to distort repentance
to be something we fear or get uncomfortable about. We might have different
emotions on the topic based on different phases of life or the different phases
of the repentance process that we might currently be at.
Elder Christofferson, The divine gift of repentance
Only repentance leads
to the sunlit uplands of a better life. And, of course, only through repentance
do we gain access to the atoning grace of Jesus Christ and salvation.
Repentance is a divine gift, and there should be a smile on our faces when we
speak of it. It points us to freedom, confidence, and peace. Rather than
interrupting the celebration, the gift of repentance is the cause for true
celebration.
We discussed the following aspects of
repentance that some people struggle with
·
Feelings of excessive/debilitating guilt
·
Inability to get past guilt or to feel relief or
to feel forgiven (completed process, but still feel bad)
·
Not realizing the need to repent
·
Wondering if they have done enough to make
restitution or paid the price sufficiently
·
Being afraid to confess
·
Fear of if restitution will be accepted
·
Feelings of hopelessness due to repeat offenses,
I keep slipping up
·
Not feeling the desire to change
·
Not being willing to give up the sin (I like it,
peer pressure)
·
Trying to avoid/escape truly understanding
repentance by attempting to be perfect (on our own merits)
We discussed the following potential roots of
these struggles and what might be a solution or answer to some of these.
·
Remembering the price has already been paid
·
Remembering that it’s not just reformation, but
paying the price
·
Remembering the importance of forgiving others
o
We are not perfect, how prideful to withhold our
forgiveness when we most assuredly need forgiveness. If we are struggling with
repentance, think of someone we can forgive.
·
Faith that the atonement is real, that we can be
forgiven. Enos: Guilt was swept away., because I knew God could not lie. How is
this done? Because of his faith in Jesus Christ
·
Remembering our divine worth:
·
Recognizing progress, the enabling power having
impact on our lives
·
Remembering everyone needs it
·
Remembering true meaning of: Godly sorrow is a
tool to bring us to repentance and have a change of heart. It has a purpose, it
is not meant to lead us to despair. Hopelessness comes from Satan.
·
Remembering Heavenly Father and Jesus want us to
succeed
·
Retaining hope
Quote 1: “The
Lord works from the inside out. The world works from the outside in. The world
would take people out of the slums. Christ takes the slums out of people, and
then they take themselves out of the slums. The world would mold men by
changing their environment. Christ changes men, who then change their
environment. The world would shape human behavior, but Christ can change human
nature. …
“Yes, Christ changes men, and changed men can change the
world.”
Quote 5: One of Satan’s most effective strategies with those
whom he has lured into sin is to whisper in their ears that they are not worthy
to pray. He will tell you that Heavenly Father is so displeased with you that
He will never hear your prayers. This is a lie, and he says it to deceive us.
The power of sin is great. If we are to extricate ourselves from it, especially
serious sin, we must have a power greater than ourselves.
No one is more anxious to help you flee from sin than your
Heavenly Father. Go to Him. Acknowledge your sin, confess your shame and your
guilt, and then plead with Him for help. He has the power to help you triumph.13
Quote 6: there are hundreds and thousands of
people who find the process of repentance much more subtle, much more
imperceptible. Day by day they move closer to the Lord, little realizing they
are building a godlike life. They live quiet lives of goodness, service, and
commitment. They are like the Lamanites, who the Lord said “were baptized with
fire and with the Holy Ghost,
and they knew it not.” (3 Ne.
9:20; italics added.)
We must not lose hope. Hope is an anchor to the souls of
men. Satan would have us cast away that anchor. In this way he can bring
discouragement and surrender. But we must not lose hope. The Lord is pleased
with every effort, even the tiny, daily ones in which we strive to be more like
Him. Though we may see that we have far to go on the road to perfection, we
must not give up hope.15
Quote: Enabling Power, Seeing our Progression:
Each week, she conducted a self-evaluation during the
sacrament. She recalled mistakes she had made, and she committed to be better
the next week. She was grateful to be able to make things right and be made
clean. Looking back on the experience, she said, “I was acting on the repentance part of the Atonement.”
Thought: Eustress vs Distress application to proper
guilt
Eustress is the good stress that motivates you to continue
working. Stress can be a motivator and provide incentive to get the job done.
This "good stress" is what eustress can be identified as and some
people enjoy it. Everyone needs a little bit of stress in their life in order
to continue to be happy, motivated, challenged and productive. It is when this
stress is no longer tolerable and/or manageable that distress comes in.
Bad stress, or distress, is when the good stress becomes too
much to bear or cope with. Tension builds, there is no longer any fun in the
challenge, there seems to be no relief, no end in sight. This is the kind of
stress most of us are familiar with and this is the kind of stress that leads
to poor decision making.
Similarly, Godly sorrow is a gift from God that motivates us
to change and improve and repent. But when our sorrow transitions to despair
and hopelessness, that comes from Satan and instead of helping us, it can
hinder our progression. It is important to be aware of the source of our guilt
and not allow Satan to pull us down.
Wednesday, January 28, 2015
RS Meeting this Saturday!
Relief Society Meeting
this Saturday, January 31st
10:30am at
**UPDATE** Rachel's home
**UPDATE** Rachel's home
(3418 Woodley Rd)

We'll be socializing, have refreshments, and
Diana Janopaul will demonstrate
lip balm and salve making!
01/25/2015 Review
Lesson Review
The Stake Relief Society presidency visited us for Ward Conference this week.
The lesson focused on this point:
The Stake Relief Society presidency visited us for Ward Conference this week.
The lesson focused on this point:
Unlock the power of Christ's atonement
through His grace
and our covenants
Grace is divine help and strength that we receive through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Through grace, we are saved from sin and death. In addition, grace is an enabling power that strengthens us from day to day and helps us endure to the end. (source)
We spoke about ways we can find grace and focus more on a Christ-centered life. Through relying on our Savior and keeping an eternal perspective we can overcome all the trials presented us by the world.
01/18/2015 Review
Lesson Review
Ezra Taft Benson
Chapter 2: Pray Always
President Ezra Taft Benson said of prayer, “There is
power in prayer. All things are possible
through prayer. It was through prayer
that the heavens were opened in this dispensation. The prayer of a boy fourteen
years of age, in the Sacred Grove, opened a new gospel dispensation, and
brought forth a vision of the Father and the Son, as they appeared as glorified
heavenly beings before the boy, Joseph.”
He further stated that “[i]f we would advance in
holiness – increase in favor with God – nothing can take the place of
prayer. And so I adjure to you to give
prayer – daily prayer – secret prayer – a foremost place in your lives. Let no
day pass without it. Communication with
the Almighty has been a source of strength, inspiration, and enlightenment to
men and women through the world’s history who have shaped the destinies of
individuals and nations for good.”
Questions to ponder:
How have you been blessed as a result of personal prayer? When have you seen family prayer lead to
blessings?
Ezra Taft Benson
Chapter 2: Pray Always
President Ezra Taft Benson said of prayer, “There is
power in prayer. All things are possible
through prayer. It was through prayer
that the heavens were opened in this dispensation. The prayer of a boy fourteen
years of age, in the Sacred Grove, opened a new gospel dispensation, and
brought forth a vision of the Father and the Son, as they appeared as glorified
heavenly beings before the boy, Joseph.”
He further stated that “[i]f we would advance in
holiness – increase in favor with God – nothing can take the place of
prayer. And so I adjure to you to give
prayer – daily prayer – secret prayer – a foremost place in your lives. Let no
day pass without it. Communication with
the Almighty has been a source of strength, inspiration, and enlightenment to
men and women through the world’s history who have shaped the destinies of
individuals and nations for good.”
Questions to ponder:
How have you been blessed as a result of personal prayer? When have you seen family prayer lead to
blessings?
President
Benson offers five ways to improve our communication with our Heavenly Father:
1.
We should pray frequently. We should be alone with
our Heavenly Father at least two or three times each day—“morning, mid-day, and
evening,” as the scripture indicates. (Alma 34:21.)
In addition, we are told to pray always. (See 2 Ne. 32:9;
D&C
88:126.) This means that our hearts should be full, drawn out in prayer
unto our Heavenly Father continually. (See Alma 34:27.)
2.
We should find an appropriate place where we can meditate
and pray. We are admonished that this should be “in [our] closets, and
[our] secret places, and in [our] wilderness.” (Alma 34:26.)
That is, it should be free from distraction, in secret. (See 3 Ne.
13:5–6.)
3.
We should prepare ourselves for prayer. If we do
not feel like praying, then we should pray until we do feel like praying. We
should be humble. (See D&C
112:10.) We should pray for forgiveness and
mercy. (See Alma
34:17–18.) We must forgive anyone against whom we have bad feelings. (See Mark 11:25.)
Yet the scriptures warn that our prayers will be vain if we “turn away the
needy, and the naked, and visit not the sick and afflicted, and impart [not] of
[our] substance.” (Alma 34:28.)
4.
Our prayers should be meaningful and pertinent. We
should avoid using the same phrases in each prayer. Any of us would become
offended if a friend said the same words to us each day, treated the
conversation as a chore, and could hardly wait to finish in order to turn on
the television set and forget us. …
For
what should we pray? We should pray about our work, against the power of our
enemies and the devil, for our welfare and the welfare of those around us. We
should counsel with the Lord regarding all our decisions and activities. (See Alma
37:36–37.) We should be grateful enough to give thanks for all we have.
(See D&C
59:21.) We should confess His hand in all things. Ingratitude is one of our
great sins.
The
Lord has declared in modern revelation: “And he who receiveth all things with
thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be
added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more.” (D&C
78:19.)
We
should ask for what we need, taking care that we not ask for things that would
be to our detriment. (See James 4:3.) We
should ask for strength to overcome our problems. (See Alma
31:31–33.) We should pray for the inspiration and well-being of the
President of the Church, the General Authorities, our stake president, our
bishop, our quorum president, our home teachers, family members, and our civic
leaders. Other suggestions could be made, but with the help of the Holy Ghost we will
know about what we should pray. (See Rom. 8:26–27.)
5.
After making a request through prayer, we have a
responsibility to assist in its being granted. We should listen. Perhaps
while we are on our knees, the Lord wants to counsel us.
Question
to ponder: What will we do, what changes
will we make, to follow President Benson’s counsel?
Saturday, January 24, 2015
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